Good points, Elenor. A mutual relationship should be built on open communication and trust. It should be easy and flow naturally. Listen to your gut instinct and if it doesn't feel right ask questions. Be courageous. Don't be a coward. You deserve respect and self-respect is the best starting point for any relationship to succeed. You want to thrive in life not merely exist. Speak your truth and if it's not well received move on. You should never play second fiddle to anyone!