Some interesting insights, Emma. Everyone has different sexual needs. The voyeuristic enjoyment of porn is not a good teacher for developing intimacy and love. Intimacy strengthens relationships; building on communication and trust. When we feel safe we can express our needs and satisfy our wants. Being dishonest and ‘faking it’ helps no one. We should be honest in our sexual relations and not feel pressured to perform to an unrealistic porn script. Partners who take the time to mutually appreciate and pleasure each other create satisfied lovers.